Tuesday, October 4, 2011

An answer about Jesse. And, "Are you having a party?"

Josh got me a bracelet yesterday.  He won it at the PX.  It is silver with Swarovski chrystals on it.  It's really pretty!  A jeweler was having a raffle and he won.  He said it's an early Christmas present- he couldn't wait to give it to me.   I need to put a picture on here!

Oh...I forgot to mention Sophia and Jesse's science yesterday as part of their curriculum.  It's Sophia's favorite class.  I really like doing it with her too.   Yesterday we were on the computer looking at pictures of different birds to identify them.  We could have been on there for a long time.  Both Jesse and Sophia are using Rod and Staff science but different grades.  I haven't heard anyone recommend them, and I'm not sure how I stumbled on them. But, it's working out great for both of them.  

Today's Bible theme is God wants us to depend on Him.  Genesis 32:22-3.  I'll put some notes from the Calvary Chapel website at the bottom of this post.

Slept in and didn't exercise.
0630 got up and ready for school - needed to do some school prep before school started today.
0700 Levi woke up andwas ready to go
0800-0830 Bible class
0845- Leave for Jesse's robotics class and take Sophia and Levi too.

          Jesse always gets done his class early and he says he is supposed to leave when he's done.  I do school work outside with Sophia and Levi plays.  There is a covered area with picnic tables.  I was going to ask Jesse's teacher how he is doing in the class (wondering about him leaving so early).   I brought my camera so I could take some pics of what he is doing.  I went into the class as it was finishing and asked to take some pics.  The teacher, who I know from soccer, said, without me asking, that Jesse is doing really well in the class.  She said he always finishes first.  And by finishes she basically means he figures out how to program his computer to program his robot to make it do what he wants (what's in the lesson).  She said he is quicker than the 7th and 8th graders and that she needs to find more for him to do.  Wow.  He more than "gets it."  I said that's why he's in this class, because he needed more to do at home too to challenge him.  So I don't know if I really have an answer for Jesse or more of a question.  What does he need to challenge him more?  What do I do to challenge a 9 yo who whizzes through robot programming that other kids were still trying to figure out?  I don't know.  I'm hoping he'll help figure it out!  In the mean time, I'll keep asking questions about how to work that part of his creativity and ability.  

Here's Jesse programming the computer/robot:


Here's the robot:


Here's Jesse attaching the robot to the computer and then he takes the robot to the big robot trial area to see if it does what he wanted it to do.  It did.  And it did it on the first try. 


1015:  
When we got home, I dropped of Jesse and Sophia and picked up Luke and kept Levi.  Off to Luke's PT appointment.  The PT did an eval and said it looks like there is some inflammation in the tendon of the supraspinatus muscle which is one of the rotator cuff muscles and the most common to get that type of injury.  Whew.  He doesn't think there is a tear!  He gave Luke some exercises and cleared him to play soccer and to bag at the commissary.  He said slide tackles are not a very safe move and set the player up for injuries like these.  I asked him to tell Luke that and he told Luke no slide tackles until he's healed and that they aren't ever a good idea.  Luke says there aren't any "safe" moves, to me after we left,  and isn't sold on the no-slide-tackle idea.  Here's what a slide tackle looks like, so you can imagine how an injury could occur if the other player falls on you when doing this.  

The slide-tackler is the one on the ground....


1130   Returned home and got ready to teach Caroline and Jesse.  I had Rachel come from 1200-2:00 today to watch Levi after I got back and before his nap.  She's been gone for about 2 weeks.  It was good to have her here today! 

12:00- 2:00   I did a grammar lesson with Caroline and Jesse.  We are using Analytical Grammar (AG) Junior this year.  I used the regular AG last year with Luke and decided to try the junior this year with Caroline and Jesse. It is going really well.  Then we did a history lesson, with Sophia too, about the process of becoming a Knight.  Caroline and Jesse are also reading Robin Hood and really enjoying it.  Then I did a writing lesson with Caroline and Jesse.  We watched the  Institute for Excellence in Writing  lesson together.  I'm familiar with it now, since Luke and Josh have done it before.  Caroline and Jesse are doing really well with it.  Very exciting.  Much different dynamics than when Luke and Josh did it a few years ago.

2:00 Read to Levi and he went to sleep for his nap.  Luke went to work at the commissary- he was so happy. 

3:00-4:00 Made phone calls.  Got Josh a hair appt for tomorrow.  He found a great picture of what he wants.  Did chores.  Caroline and I made a peach/apple crisp for tonight.

4:00-5:00 Ran, ok drove,  to the PX for some necessities.  I tried to pick up pizza, but I didn't have time to wait. 

5:00 Home to get Sophia ready for gymnastics and Jesse ready for Scouts.   Steve got home before I left. 

5:45 Took Sophia to gymnastics.  Picked up pizza for dinner.  When I was leaving the pizza place with 4 boxes of pizza (I like to get extra for left over for lunch the next day), a young soldier, who was a customer, smiled and said , "Are you having a party?" as I was walking past.  Over my shoulder I replied, "I have six kids."  So, yes.   ( :

6:15 Ate pizza. 
Steve and Jesse got home early.
Ate peach/apple crisp with homemade whip cream.  I had extra whipping cream from making the butter!

6:45 Back to pick up Sophia.  She came  home and ate.

7:30 Steve and I took a short walk while the younger kids got ready for bed, Josh watched sports and Luke worked on his PSAT prep.  He takes his first PSAT next week at the local high school.  He took a prep course this summer. 

Then....getting kids ready for bed....typing the blog....


Notes from the Calvary Chapel website for today's Bible lesson:
PSALM 145:18
"The LORD is near to all who call upon Him, to all who call
upon Him in truth.”
Jacob had been traveling back to the home he had left many years
before and back to a brother who had threatened to kill him. On
his journey, he encountered a host of angels! He named that place
“Mahanaim,” meaning “two companies or groups,” possibly one
going before him and one, behind him.

What a comfort to Jacob that God was with him and would keep
and protect him wherever he went. However, the scheming Jacob
still resorts to his own efforts to accomplish God's promises in his
life. How can a man who is so strong in himself ever come to a
place of leaning totally upon God? Truly, Jacob's greatest need is to
become a broken man before God. He needs to trade his self-sufficiency
for an attitude of dependency on God. God finds a way
to work in Joseph’s life—he is about to have a life-changing
encounter! God wants us to depend on Him.

GENES I S 32:24a
Then Jacob was left alone. . .
Here we see that "Jacob was left alone." Jacob was alone with God.
It was the only true way for Jacob to see himself as he really was.
There was no place for scheming or conniving here; God knows the
heart. It was just Jacob and God.

Such an encounter is vital for each one of us! Sometimes, we need
to be "left alone" with God in order that we may see ourselves as we
really are. God’s presence and light reveals the weaknesses and
dark places of our hearts. Our excuses and schemes fade away in
the presence of His holiness.

Now we see that a man appeared to Jacob while he was alone, and
the man wrestled with Jacob. It is significant that the man wrestled
with Jacob, not Jacob with the man. Who was this man, and why
did he wrestle with Jacob?
In Hosea 12:4, this man is called "the Angel." It may have been a
time when Jesus made an appearance before being born as a baby
in the manger. There appear to be several times in the Old
Testament that Jesus appeared as “the Angel” or “Messenger of the
Lord.” In verse 30, Jacob states, "For I have seen God face to face."
Jacob was chosen by God to establish the nation of Israel, God's
chosen nation. Jacob had to fully know his own weakness, but even
more importantly, he must know the power and all-sufficiency of
God. We see they wrestled all night. One would think that if God
was wrestling with Jacob, it would not have taken all night. Was
Jacob stronger than God? Of course not! What can we see in this
"long" struggle?
Jacob had a lot of “self” left in him. As we saw earlier, Jacob was a
strong, self-reliant man. He would not give up easily. Yet, we also
see a beautiful picture of God's long-suffering and forbearance with
us. God is patient and full of compassion for His children. He
bears with us, though we are flawed, stubborn, and often rebellious.
He accomplishes His purposes in our lives through His unrelenting
love and unending grace. Philippians 1:6 states, “Being confident
of this very thing, that He who has begun a good work in you will
complete it until the day of Jesus Christ….”
In verse 25, we see that the Lord "touched the socket of his
(Jacob's) hip; and the socket of Jacob's hip was out of joint as he
wrestled with him." God could have ended the struggle in two
seconds if He had chosen to do so. With just one touch, Jacob
became powerless. When the thighbone is thrown out of joint, a
man is utterly disabled. Jacob, by one touch from his wrestling
opponent, could no longer stand alone; instead, he clung to the
One who conquered him, relying on the One who was mightier than
he.
God desires that each of us understand our own powerlessness
apart from Him. He desires to be our strength in weakness. He
desires that we not be “self” confident or “self” reliant, but rather
that our confidence be in Him. God wants us to depend on
Him.
In verse 26, we read that the "visitor" wants Jacob to let him go.
Jacob refuses until the Lord blesses him. It is at this point, when
his thigh has been disabled, that Jacob cries out "I will not let you
go" and Jacob adds "unless you bless me."
Then the Lord asked Jacob his name. Did the Lord not know his
name? God knows everything, but as Jacob told God who he was,
he must have been reminded what his name meant: “heel catcher”
or “deceiver.” Jacob was well named, for he had a history of
deception and manipulation. However, now, he was disabled,
dependent upon another, and seeking a blessing. God was about to
make big changes in the life and character of Jacob.
GENES I S 32:28-29
And He s aid, "Your name shal l no longer be c al l ed
J ac ob, but I s r ael ; f or you hav e s t ruggl ed wi th God
and wi th men, and hav e pr ev ai l ed. "
Then J ac ob as k ed Him, s aying, "Tel l me Your name, I
pr ay. " And He s aid, "Why i s i t that you as k about My
name?" And He bl es s ed him ther e.
Here a wonderful thing happened to Jacob. God now calls him,
“Israel.” He is no longer to be the "deceiver"; instead, he would be
called “ruled by God." The name Israel means "governed by God."
Jacob would go from being a person who tried to manipulate things
through deceit, to a man who was in submission to God’s will and
purposes. God would now be “in control,” not Jacob. Sometimes
we need to be brought to the end of ourselves—our own abilities
and sufficiency--before we realize we need God to be in control of
our lives
Jacob then asked the “Man” his name, and the “Man” asked him a
question, "Why is it that you ask about my name?" Then the “Man”
“blessed him there." As we acknowledge our need and dependency
on God and submit ourselves to His control, He will bless us. God
wants us to depend on Him.
GENES I S 32:30-32
And J ac ob c al l ed the name of the pl ac e Peni el : "For I
hav e s een God f ac e t o f ac e, and my l i f e i s
pr es erv ed. "
J us t as he c ros s ed ov er Penuel the sun ros e on him,
and he l imped on hi s hip.
Ther ef or e t o thi s day the chi ldr en of I s r ael do not
eat the mus c l e that shr ank , whi ch i s on the hip
soc k et , bec aus e He t ouched the soc k et of J ac ob' s hip
in the mus c l e that shr ank .
Jacob named the place of this occurrence “Peniel”; the face of God.
Jacob had been allowed to see and touch God and was still alive to
share the experience. For this to be possible, God veiled Himself in
human form (Exodus 33:20; 1 Timothy 6:16). The name of the
place was not forgotten, though changed to Penuel. It was known
as Penuel at least until the days of the divided kingdom (1 Kings
12:25).
Jacob was left with a permanent reminder of his encounter with
God--his limp, reminding him that God had prevailed in Jacob’s
life. When we see Jesus, the scars in His hands and feet will remind
us, throughout all eternity, that He has overcome sin and death for
each of us.

May we not be stubborn as Jacob was for so many years. A life
ruled by self is a miserable life. Romans 12:1 states, “…present your
bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your
reasonable service.” May we realize our helplessness and
hopelessness apart from our Creator. God wants us to depend
on Him.

Monday, October 3, 2011

Tidbits....and three more Christmases with Luke before he graduates, and Steve IS going to Afghanistan

Darby joins us for Bible.  Sophia brings Darby's bed in for her to lay on.

I was going to skip this week's Bible reading, because it's stories that we've read before numerous times, until I saw the daily themes on the Calvary website and I figured we could find something to apply to our lives.  Today's theme was everybody is different, but we're all part of God's family.  We read about the son's (and daughter) of Jacob.  Leah is actually the mother of Levi, whose people became the priests and she is the mother of Judah who is in the line of Jesus.  They were Leah's, not  Rachel's, Jacob's beloved. 

On Mondays I give out weekly schedules to everyone.   It's a little different this year because our history and literature begin on Wednesdays, not Mondays.  It's actually nice in a way. That way everything isn't starting on Monday and ending on Friday.  The varying start days make it less stressful.  I still have Caroline and Jesse's grammar Monday - Friday and Sophia's Spelling.   But other subjects are more flexible this year.

After Bible, usually Luke and Josh go start their work.  Some days they have an online class at 0900.  Caroline's German is on Mondays at 0900.  So, each day I start Sophia's subjects with her.  Caroline and Jesse start with math (except Mondays for Caroline and Tuesdays for Jesse- robotics day).

Here is what I do with Sophia generally....

Sophia
reading (Sophia is still learning so we have daily reading lessons)
math
printing
language (First Language Lessons)  It has grammar and memory work.
read to herself
spelling
literature (I read to her)- The Making of a Knight
Bible- learning OT books and with Josh too.   The others know them.

I spend most of my time with Sophia and then with  Jesse and Caroline.

Caroline and Jesse today
grammar class
Caroline's German
writing- helped type Caroline's final copy and review both of their final copies.  Writing class is tomorrow.
Jesse's cursive.
We'll do history tomorrow.

Caroline and I made Medieval Meat Pies for dinner tonight.  She will get the meal ready when I am Sophia's follow-up appt for her ankles.

Caroline's Medieval Meat Pie- Yum!!


Some things I do with Luke and Josh...
Bible class
Go over Logic homework
Check Josh's Spanish homework and quizzes sometimes
Grade Luke's math tests, help him with math homework
Grade Josh's science tests and go over his labs and science homework.



Trying to get Luke into PT asap for his shoulder.

The kids have weekly chores today and since they didn't do them last week, they are going to do them again on Thursday!  So I think everybody but Jesse has done their chores today- I think Jesse is waiting for Levi to wake up.

I want to have Caroline, Josh and Luke able to make a few meals for dinner for the family. 1) so they know how to cook a few meals,  2) for times when I need help!

My plan is to start having the kids learn how to cook a turkey dinner before they leave home.  Show them one year, help them the next and let them be in charge during their senior year, something like that.  Luke will start this year or next. 

Yesterday I went to the commissary and they had Advent calendars.  I get the kids one each year.  I realized that after this year, I will only be able to by one for Luke for 2 more years.  ):  Then, most likely, he'll be gone.  Hopefully he'll be home for holidays, but I don't know.  Sigh......


On the way to Sophia's appt I finally got an appt for Luke for PT for tomorrow!  It took both Steve and I a big part of the day to get it.  Steve finally talked to the right person who admitted that it was possible to make an appt today- he just had to keep calling and asking until he asked the right question to the right person.  It literally took me 30 minutes on one phone call to schedule an appt for tomorrow.   Sophia is just having growing pains and is doing much better!  The doc offered to see my for my plantar faciitis.  :)


Levi went down for his nap before I left for Sophia's appt and he was still asleep when I got home.  He didn't even know I was gone!

I think I average about 2-5 doctor/dentist/orthodontist appts/week.  And that's for healthy kids.  This week there are 5....so far. I also need  Josh a haircut before he changes his mind.

This evening Luke said his  shoulder is getting better.

Caroline and Josh had soccer practice, but I wouldn't let Luke go to his although he wanted to.  He went to the gym to ride the stationary bike.

Not an after thought by any means, but Steve heard last week that he might go to Afghanistan.  This is the 2nd time this month this has come up but for 2 different taskings.  He's been trying to find out details and finally got the confirmation today, that yes, the general officer who asked for Steve by name really did mean that he wants Steve to go with him.  He will leave around the end of the month or the beginning of next.  And when will he come back?  Hopefully in less than 6 months.  Military orders are easy to change so nothing is certain.  It's the unknown.  Usually the unknown is the hardest, in my experience.   My experience also has me not really getting excited about anything until it's actually happening.  Once he gets his orders,  I guess it will actually be happening.

Sunday, October 2, 2011

Tesas homeschool laws. Homemade butter.

(There are pictures at the end of this post.  If you're receiving this via email and you don't see pictures, you could go to the actual site and see them. 
http:// journeying-sue.blogspot.com)

My friend in my homeschool group has been homeschooling for 10 years.   The other day some local police (she lives about 20 minutes away) approached her boys who were outside playing.  They asked the boys questions about what they were doing and why they weren't in school.  The boys said they were homeschooled and were on a break.  The police questioned them about  what their school hours were, the curriculum,etc., and told them they needed to be at home and doing school work.  
 
Here's what she said, "What I did have a problem with & how my rights were violated was the fact that he questioned my children about their schooling - not me. I used very specific instances of my homeschooling rights here in the state of Texas. I quoted the Leeper vs. Arlington ISD case in April 1987 in which the Supreme Court declared that homeschooling is considered to be a private school. There is no attendance requirement in a private school, so if I was giving my children the day off from school, that is my right. I also made him aware that nobody (even the police) have a right to question what curriculum we use or even how long we school for.  They have to take a complaint to the school district we are part of, and only a proctor with a written letter of complaint may ask to enter my home. (Kind of like a search warrant by a policeman - he can only enter your home with a warrant.)  The only thing a proctor may ask to see is what curriculum you use and where you school at."  

She shared this with our homeschool group so that everyone would be aware.  It was great that she knew the law so well. 

Luke got his Hunter's Safety course done today.  He and Josh are ready to go hunting next month.  

I sooooo want to get T-shirts made up that say, "Everything I know I learned from YouTube."   Luke's history teacher suggested that if students' parents approve the students could watch "Worst Jobs in History:  Middle Ages" on You Tube!! 

So, we're studying the Middle Ages.  During that time a family's cow provided many of the basic foods they ate every day:  butter, cream, cheese, milk, whey, buttermilk and curds (like our cottage cheese).  Tonight Caroline and Sophia made some butter!   Jesse will make some tomorrow.  Oh, I guess I could have Levi make some and that might keep him busy for awhile.  To make it, you put whipping cream in a jar and shake it up.  We made it 5 years ago when were studying this time period.  They remembered making it and eating it.  It's really good.  I am making bread in the bread machine to have for breakfast with the butter.
Caroline shaking....


Sophia eating fresh butter on toast.

A bike ride, 4 soccer games, Homecoming dance clothes shopping, and a family meal out!



(Written  on SATURDAY but posted on Sunday.  Better late than never.)

Steve and I went for a bike ride this morning for about an hour and 20 minutes.  We went through downtown San Antonio to the south side of the city, through the King William district with the beautiful old homes, and then back home.  Steve dropped Luke off at his game so he could cheer for his team from the side line.  ):  The team won.  I was secretly hoping they would lose making it seem obvious they would lose without Luke on the team.  God is keeping me humble, though - they won 5-2 without him.

I dropped Jesse off at the PX so he could sell Cub Scout popcorn for a few hours before his soccer game.  Then I dropped Caroline off for her game, came home and got a shower, then back to her game with Levi  and his Epi-Pen.  I met Steve there and gave him the snacks for the team- today was our day to provide snacks.  Then I went to pick up Luke at his game and to take him clothes shopping before going to Jesse's game.  Steve picked Jesse up from popcorn sales and dropped him at his game before heading to Schertz with Josh for his game....minus the Epi-Pen...  Caroline said he got bit by an ant.  Steve said you could barely tell, just a little red mark around the site.  That's great.  Maybe he won't react ever again.

Luke and found a vest and pants he liked at Dillard's.  The 2 pieces were $150.  We looked around some more and found a great vest/pants set, plus 2 shirts(one light purple and one blue) with 2 ties, and 2 pair of argyle socks- one with matching purple and one with matching blue!  With the 30% discount I got for opening a JC Penny credit card, everything was only $90! Everything fits well and looks really nice on him.  I was so excited.   He was too, on the inside.  He said it was hard to show how excited he was because of his hurt shoulder...whatever (:   He'll out grow the pants by the spring.  We'll have to move at least 3 times before Josh can fit into them.  And, in about 6 years, Jesse could be wearing them if I can move them around and pull them out of the "Attic Store" at the precise time.  (The Attic Store is the fancy name for the hand-me-downs I store in the Attic.)

It's been cold here the past few days.  Well, cold in the mornings.  As low as 79 degrees.  The kids have started wearing sweatshirts.  It's still in the 90's during the day. 

We all went out to eat!!  To "John the Greeks".  It was like eating in a foreign country, but speaking English! We all enjoyed it.  I think we enjoyed it more because we rarely go out to eat.

Before we left I finally one of my neighbors who I wanted to invite to our new service at church.  I didn't think they went to church anywhere.  Anyway, they are a wonderful family with 3 small children.  The husband and I were in the same unit at Fort Benning and we deployed to Desert Storm together.  I had a great conversation with "K" and it turns out they go to the Catholic service on post.  She said that she is always interested in seeing other worship services so she'll talk to her husband about going with us sometime.

Saturday, October 1, 2011

Ice Cream Social Day!!

I didn't get to send this until Sat, but I wrote it on Friday.......Yesterday (Thursday) I tried the soaking-the-feet thing with Levi again, putting him in the room with a few of us.  I had to do something else and left the room.  After a little while he got up too.  I just left the basin with water in it in the dining room. I leave a towel under it for spillage.  Well I realized it had been there for awhile and what he was doing was putting his feet in and out and just getting up and walking around as evidenced by the wet feet marks all over the hardwood floor.  He enjoyed it.

Today we went to our homeschool group's Ice Cream Social.  Steve stopped by for a little while too, although you probably can't see him in this because he's wearing camouflage. (:

The "S" family joined us!!  

 Here's the line(s) for ice cream and toppings.




 Here's Matthew looking cool while serving.

The kids all had fun.  Lots of relaxed homeschoolers.

This week at the Army hospital parking lot a man was driving a car and had a heart attack.  A soldier mom was pushing her 17 month old child in a stroller and the man hit and killed the baby.  Just like that.  The man died too.  You never know what will happen.  I don't know how people who don't know have a relationship with Jesus handle something like that.

Then, at the Ice Cream Social, I met a mom and her 5 yo boy.  Her older son died last spring (2010).  I had read an email from her introducing herself to our group and she said that her older son died last year.  So, when I met her I knew that much.  We got to talk for awhile and walk in the woods...I mean chase after our kids in the woods.  We talked about the soldier who just lost her baby.  She said her son died due to an accident and she doesn't know anybody gets through something like that if they don't know Jesus.  She wants to meet the mom to see if she can help.

A mom in our group, who I never met before, sent out a request for someone to take her girls to the ice cream social because she was having a miscarriage.  I emailed her to see if anyone offered and she said no, so I offered.  I can relate to having a miscarriage and having to take care of your other kids at the same time.  I've had 5 miscarriages.  She and her husband actually brought the girls to the park and I just kept my eye on them (one of my 6 eyes) and take them home.  It was so nice to have the girls in the car.  Sophia and the 7 yo sat in the back and had a grand time talking and laughing.  And the 10 yo got to sit in the middle row with Levi.  They talked the whole way!   I told her I was going to keep her in the car with me because he usually says, "Mom"....."Mom"....."Mom", filled in with some conversation, the entire ride.